Saturday, February 14, 2026

"Measuring The Honesty Of Our Own Hearts" Self Examination - Spiritual Growth - Emotional Blind Spots - Going Against the Flow

 


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By Mary Lindow 

I am by far not an expert on the subject of plumblines and righteousness, so take what I say in the light of one who at time gropes like a child in the dark, ever reaching for the hand of the ONE to lead me into a safe place filled with His Hope, His Mercy, His Light and Life.

WE LIVE IN A CORRUPT WORLD
 and therefore, have the “effects and affects” of that corruption ever influencing, ever tainting and ever wooing the flesh. 

Plumbline: a tool that consists of a small, heavy object attached to a string or rope and that is used especially to see if something (such as a wall) is perfectly vertical or in alignment)  

A plumbline is a simple but accurate tool used for determining whether or not something is perfectly vertical or upright. 

The Lord also used, and uses, a "plumbline," His Word, to determine how upright His people truly are in His sight. How upright they think they are, or how upright they proclaim themselves to be, means nothing to God.

"Behold, I WILL set a plumbline in the midst of My people". 
-Amos 7:7 


A PLUMBLINE SET OUT BY THE HAND OF GOD IS ONE THAT WE CAN ANCHOR OUR HEARTS TO.
It will always, always, ALWAYS, direct us to the truth in a matter; even if it requires pain, loss, persecution and perhaps death in areas we feel we may well have rights to. 
It will also be a shield, a balm, a comfort and a teacher to those who will yield to the directive positioning of the Master. 

“I will make justice the measuring line and righteousness the plumbline.”
 -Isaiah 28:17 

LIFE – DISTRESS - AND PERSECUTION 
I have found that in my life, distress and persecution do not feel like God’s care being poured out on me. My heart is not immediately drawn to thanksgiving and gratefulness for the faithfulness of God on display as I cling to the battered pieces that look like potential “rafts” of hope, only to find out that many of them have gaping holes or slow leaks in them. 

Rather, it feels like yet another hurt is being permanently woven into my tattered and war-torn soul. It seems as if another mound of questions are piling up and just waiting for an answer and a true solid REAL anchor of hope. 

I CAN REALLY CONNECT TO THE WRITER OF PSALM 42 

He said “Why are you cast down, O my soul, and why are you in turmoil within me?” It’s at those very times that the words of the Savior are so important. When we are down and in turmoil. 

But, how do we connect the dots between what we know is true about God’s faithfulness and what our hearts feel? When flipped and flung around by the waves, weary from crying and when no answer seems at hand, what is the answer? 

When my circumstances show many foes and tyrants rising up against me and my heart is prone to wander and fear, what hope is there of peace? 

When my feelings start controlling my thoughts, how can I rest in God’s promises? 

AT THIS POINT… I HEAR THE “GASPS” … 

…And perhaps shocked comments of a few who are amazed that someone who appears to walk so fervently and intimately with the Lord would have such difficulties! 

Well! Guess what?
I do struggle, I do hurt, and yes I do doubt when I have been side swiped or “rammed” by skilled cons and those who, although may have the appearance of godliness and offered friendship or fellowship, end up having private and evil agendas behind their well placed and planned schemes.


And boy oh boy! Those skilled players know the wicked art of wounding the heart and causing people to reel in pain! 

BUT, THERE IS ONE WHO FULLY SEES IT ALL 

The main skill in the issue of dealing with life as a spiritual person, is to know how to handle yourself when things not only crush and grind your heart, but what to do with the anguish and toll of their aftermath. 

✅ We have to get ourselves into a place where we hear clearly again. 
 We need have to address ourselves, preach to ourselves, and ask questions about ourselves. 
✅ We must say to our soul: 
"Why are you cast down –Why are you so anxious and lacking in peace?" 
✅  We must urge ourselves, and say ‘Hope in God’–instead of remaining in this paralyzed, aching state!” 

AND THEN WE MUST TAKE IT A STEP FURTHER

We must go on to remind ourselves just “Who “God is, and what God is and what God has done, and what God has promised that he Himself said that He would do. 

Having done that we can stand up and sing out strongly, defying the torment of the soul, and resist other people’s wicked tongues and arrogance, and refuse to go along with the devil and the whole world, and say: ‘Hope in God; for I shall again praise him, my salvation and my God.” 

The hope and promise of the fairness of God’s justice when dealing with the hurtful things and presumptions of others gives me the confidence to know that God will never turn away from me in my need.
No matter how they seem to prosper in the short term, wicked men and women will ultimately pay for their sins, in this life or the next. Jesus died to meet my greatest hardships and sorrows for me, and I need to preach this to myself every day.
His power is greater than my weariness and suffering. 

The comforting and instruction that comes from simply running to feed upon His word instead of the toxic poison of the replaying of trauma reminds me that what Jesus has done is strong enough for my soul to rejoice in and to be set into a place where it can rest and regroup, gaining a healthy perspective about what to give out to others and what is simply…
…. To be enjoyed by the Lord Himself. 

THE NATURAL IMPULSES OF MANKIND ARE SINFUL AND DECEITFUL! 

Human willpower alone will never be able to change this. 
We need God's help to truly change our hearts. 

REMEMBER. You cannot change the heart of anyone else either. 
If you try to, you will feel the bite of stinging venom or be laughed out of a room. Only the power of the conviction of the Holy Spirit can permeate and get around the jam-packed hardhearted egos of the self sufficient and bitter. 
Jeremiah 17:9 says that the human heart is deceitful in all things and is even beyond cure!

We must be cautious and wise in reproving and warning such types of people about their bad behaviors and wicked actions where there seems to be no appearance or hope of change and where there is danger of experiencing great and heart wrecking retaliation and slander. 

These types trample the warnings and urging for repentance and humbling of the heart under their feet, and turn again and slash at you, despising the warnings that are “tearfully and fearfully” given, and often hurt the persons who give them, either by words or deeds. 


"Don't waste what is holy on people who are unholy. 
Don't throw your pearls to pigs! 
They will trample the pearls, 
then turn and attack you.” 
-Matthew 7:6 
 

"GIVE ME THE FACTS MA’AM JUST THE FACTS” 

I remember that phrase from a TV show called “Dragnet”. 
The detective would not allow the details of the case to be skewed by any assumptions or pontificating from those he interviewed. He stoically and firmly demanded only the facts. 

And so, here are the “facts” about the heart of a good man or woman.


1.) The good man or woman: Brings good things out of the good stored up in his/her heart. 

And the facts about an evil man or woman. 

2.) The evil man/woman brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his/her heart. For out of the overflow of his or her heart his or her mouth speaks. Luke 6:45
 

 
THE FRAILTY, BRIEFNESS, AND INSECURITY OF LIFE 
The frailty, briefness, and insecurity of life should hold down the vanity and presumptuous confidence of all of our projects and boasting about future greatness and bragging rights! We are always to depend on the will and leading of God. 

OUR TIMES ARE NOT IN OUR OWN HANDS, BUT ARE INSTEAD IN THE TIMING OF GOD. Our heads may be filled with cares and plans for ourselves, or our families, or our friends; but Divine intervention often throws our plans into bewilderment. All we have in mind, and all we do, should be with a humble and deep dependence on God.

It is foolish, and it is hurtful, to boast of trendy “latest happening” things and prospective projects, and it will bring great disappointment and will prove destructive to relationships and meaningful help to others in the end. 

“For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, 
a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. 
These are not from the Father, but are from this world.” 
-1 John 2:16


LISTEN KINDLY - BEFORE SPEAKING YOUR THOUGHTS 

People don't need a lecture on the meaning of suffering or to have a barrage of scriptures “machine-gunned” at them as a reprimand for sharing their moment of grief or struggle! (Especially when their hearts are breaking, weary of the battle and if they are fatigued.)

Job could have done without some of the self-righteous answers that came from his “well-meaning” friends. All of the answers could have even been true, but Job didn't need to hear any of them. 
He needed their love, not their value judgments. 

In fact, it appears as if God judged THEM for trying to offer simple solutions to things that were beyond their comprehension
They had never walked in the loss he was in anguish over. 

WHEN WE SUFFER UNJUSTLY WE HAVE A MAJOR CHOICE TO MAKE

How will we respond? 
We can feel sorry for ourselves (and understandably so, for a while), become bitter and cynical, get drawn into a war of words, or even become mixed up in a major conflict.

On the other hand, we can take our suffering to the cross and allow our pain to draw us into a deeper place of understanding of what Jesus went though in his sufferings. This does not remove the pain, but does help us to know what to do with our hurt. 

This is the 'fellowship of his sufferings' (Philippians 3:10), one of the gateways to closeness with God and the release of his power in our lives. The weight of heartbreak shared with a loving friend cuts it in half. 
When the burden is shared with many friends, we can cope with almost anything.

We never feel more revitalized than when a friend loves us enough to walk with us in our pain. Not lecture us. 

The apostle Paul wrote these words to the church in Corinth: 
"Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, 
so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we 
ourselves have received from God". -1 Corinthians 1.3-4 

SOMETIMES GOD GETS INVOLVED WITH DIRECT MIRACLES, 
Giving supernatural strength to those in need. 
But for the most part, he depends on us, his people, to do his work in the world. We love each other, work for healing, and suffer with those who suffer. 

The next time you see a friend who is suffering, Jesus may just invite you to be the warm embrace! We comfort each other with the comfort we have received in Christ. And when we do, we become the Body of Christ and he receives the glory! 

THE BIBLE IS CLEAR! 

We are to bear one another's burdens. 
We are to comfort others as Christ has given comfort to us. 
Your hard time becomes my hard time. 

We join hands in the journey. 
When you succeed, I succeed. 
When you suffer, I suffer. But we do it together. We share it together. 

And we do it, not so much in our wisdom or our words, but in our availability, our understanding, and through our presence. 

THAT'S WHAT FELLOWSHIP IS ALL ABOUT! 

But not “bland” fellowship.
It is CHRISTIAN fellowship. It is the business of burden bearing.
Authentic CHRISTIAN fellowship says that when you need me . . . I'll be there.

Support in suffering is at the core 
of what it means to share life together in Christ. 

The word for "comfort” is the same root word as the name Jesus used to describe one of the functions of the Holy Spirit in our lives (Paraclete). “I will be a comforter, one who comes alongside to give help.” And so as God comes alongside you, now you are able to come alongside another. As the Comforter is at work within you, so you also can be of comfort to those around you. 

WE ARE CALLED TO BEAR ONE ANOTHER'S BURDENS. 
To mourn with those who mourn.
To be a follower of Jesus means to come alongside people who are hurting and find ways to help them walk even through the valley of the shadow of death. We are called to do this, as the word of God and care of God is shared with the intention of stirring, plowing up hardened hearts, creating a place for repentance and challenging saints to hope again, I know and believe that as we learn again as believers, to care, to truly listen and to hope fully again, that the sweet and heavy weight of HIS Glory will be made known and will manifest in unfettered and uncontrolled waves of worship and spontaneous adoration of the King of Heaven. 

HE REALLY DOES KNOW WHAT HE WANTS

Let's focus on bowing low and seeking His heart and plans in what matters to Him.
Indeed, HE is the Plumbline. 

Prayer 
God, I ask in Jesus' name, that you comfort, strengthen and encourage all who are hurting deeply right now and are going through so much pain and heartache. 

Don't allow them to give up in the heat of the battle. 

Let them feel your arms wrapping around them and your love overflowing and filling them up. Lord, I will pray often and I know that you will hear my voice, even when I speak to You in my silent thoughts. 

To You, I am crying out and my prayers are now before You. 
Father, I give to You my problems, I do not want them. 

Father, please restore them to You. I know that you have compassion for your children. Father, show them your ways and teach them your paths. Lead them in your truth and teach them you are the God of our salvation and on you we will wait. 

Protect them from the evils of this life and guide them through all of their days. Father, thank You for hearing my prayer Father and for considering and for having compassion on all who hear and read these words, and all who hurt, in this troubled world we live in. 

Keep them in the center of Your love. 

In Jesus’ Name

~ Amen 

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Wednesday, January 21, 2026

"You Are Seen - You Are Of Great Value - You Are His."


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I welcome you all to this podcast and its going to be a very tender and special podcast

Especially during this time right now where the world is in upheaval and so many things are going on in the church, 

with so many further exposures of deviant acts, monetary gambling as it were, and just inappropriate and criminal activity, 

and then it being covered up

It can be a lot to have to just navigate

 and of course to process


Were going to look at something more precious and tender, which is the fact that the Lord Sees us

He wants you to know he sees YOU individually as his unique and beautiful creation.

 

So! I want to bring up the subject

What Is A Sparrow?

The scripture talks about that the Heavenly Father even cares about the sparrows even though theyre really pretty common and little non-descriptive. 

Theyre not bright little birds. Theyre just kind of dull in color, kind of a dove gray.

But you know what?

THE SPARROW IS A CLEVER LITTLE BIRD

In Psalm 84 David describes his longing to be with the people of God and in the actual moment that he wrote this, he was a wanderer. 

He was a fugitive.

He was not able to be in a place where he could have fellowship with God or other people, and this is when he wrote Psalm 84.

It says,

1 How lovely is your dwelling place, Lord Almighty!

2 My soul yearns, even faints, for the courts of the Lord; 

My heart and my flesh cry out for the living God.

Have you ever felt this way or longed for fellowship like David wrote about with the Lord? 

His word so clearly expresses what it meant to David.

Then, he remembered one of his bird watching experiences. 


He remembered how at one time when he was in the house of God, 

he looked up toward the altar and he noticed some movement. 

When he looked closer, he found a sparrow building her nest, 

so he wrote in verse 3:


Even the sparrow has found a home,

And the swallow a nest for herself,

Where she may have her younga place near your altar.

 

Lord Almighty, my King and my God! he said. 

I wish I could be like that sparrow.

I wish I could be like that swallow that is able to build its nest at the very altar of God.

 

What David is saying here is, Can you think of anything better than to have your home in the altar of God in the sanctuary?

This is something so very precious to me because I am always so tremendously interested in nurturing and loving my family and my grandchildren, that I cannot pass this over.

Did you notice this swallow chose the altar of God to build a nest for her family?  She could have chosen any place to build a nest, but she chose the altar of God.

Yes! The sparrow is a clever bird.

 

BUILDING YOUR NEST IN THE SANCTUARY OF GOD

I believe that things are put here for a reason and for instruction, so I am going to suggest 

that if you want your family to be all that God wants it to be, build your nest, (metaphorically speaking), at the altar. 

Build your nest in the sanctuary because in the sanctuary, is the answer to every question that you have. 

And I hope that you understand that I am not talking about a church building! 

I am talking about your fellowship with God. 

There must also, always be room in your nest to include those with broken wings, 

or who have been abandoned or left as orphans.

 


A SPARROW IS VALUABLE!

One more lovely thing about the sparrow. 

The sparrow is a valuable bird. 

I am sure that some people might question this statement! But it is a valuable bird, indeed. 

Some may say, But not to man!  It is Valuable to God though!

 

I am sure the Lord did some bird watching as he travelled to places with his dear friends, 

but this particular instance that He records is in the temple.

As He went into the temple one day, He saw a whole bunch of sparrows, 

(remember that we are talking about a small bird) with their legs tied together, 

and they were being sold for a sacrifice in the temple.

In Matthew, chapter 10 notice what Jesus has to say about sparrows.

As He looked at those sparrows, He said, in verse 29:

Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing?” 

 

That was the least expensive offering that anybody could make!

If we were to stop there, we would say what we ordinarily say, 

What is a sparrow? They are not worth anything at all,” 

but the Lord said, in the last part of verse 29:

And one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father knowing about it.

 That is how valuable they are. 

Not one sparrow falls to the ground without God knowing about it.

 

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT WHEN YOU SEE A DEAD SPARROW? 

Do you just kick it out of the way and go on?  

Often we see someone much like the little dead sparrow, wounded or suffering 

from the cruelty of others too busy to really care about a broken wing” or perhaps a broken heart.

So many are busy licking their own wounds and getting on with their own lives, that they are unaware of 

the sparrows” that God has placed in their midst. 

Those who need to be invited into a place of Sanctuary!


Do you treat your employees like this or a friend who has been through a season of sorrow or loss?

Do you find yourself simply walking past the Wounded or dead Sparrow?

That would be a normal reaction, but evidently when the Lord saw the sparrow that fell, he felt very differently.  

He said,

MY FATHER KNOWS ABOUT THAT SPARROW

And my Father cares about it.” 

 

Then notice what He says:

Matthew 10:30

And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 

31 So dont be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows. 

 


A SPARROW IS SO IMPORTANT TO GOD,

that it doesn't fall to the ground without God knowing about it, 

and you and those whom He has placed around you to radiate truth and hope to, are of more value than many sparrows.

In Matthew, chapter 6, I think that Lord has done some bird watching and might want us to do some as well!

Because… 

He said:

Matthew 6:26-34

26 "Look at the birds in the air. They dont plant or harvest or store food in barns, 

but your heavenly Father feeds them. And you know that you are worth much more than the birds.

27 You cannot add any time to your life by worrying about it.

28 And why do you worry about clothes? 

Look at how the lilies in the field grow. 

They dont work or make clothes for themselves. 


29 But I tell you that even Solomon with his riches was not dressed as beautifully as one of these flowers. 

30 I clothe the grass in the field, which is alive today but tomorrow is thrown into the fire. 

So you can be even surer that I will clothe you. Dont have so little faith! 

31 Dont worry and say, What will we eat?’ or What will we drink?’ or What will we wear?’ 

32 The people who dont know God keep trying to get these things, 

and your Father in heaven knows you need them. 

33 Seek first Gods kingdom and what God wants. Then all your other needs will be met as well. 

34 So dont worry about tomorrow, because tomorrow will have its own worries. 

Each day has enough trouble of its own."

 

That last part of verse 26

It asks such a beautiful and piercing question.

And do you not know that you are worth much more than the birds?

Or in another translation is asks,

Are you not of more value than they?"  

 In other words, if God cares this much about a sparrow, about a bird, 

how much more then does He care about you?  

 

Think about it:  

We are the Crown Jewel of His Creation.  

We are made in His image!  

We see what He has made in nature alone and then think,

Wow, even mankind is elevated above all of that.  

God you really are amazing. 

God you really do love us!  

If our response is not adoration and praise, we need to check our hearts 

and see God once again for Who He is. 

 

A very well spoken and eloquent preacher said one time,

There is never a sparrow that dies but that God goes to its funeral.

This really touched my heart and impressed me. 

Not a sparrow dies, but that God..

 goes to its funeral.

 

THE NEXT TIME THAT YOU SEE A SPARROW… 

Remember that God is paying attention to that little sparrow. 

God is interested in you and He is interested and concerned about me as well! 

Remember that God cares about you so much more than even that sparrow, 

and that He wants to draw you closely into a safe place of Sanctuary with Him!  

A place of safety and peace, where you can rest and learn about His love for you, 

for your family and those dear close friends and perhaps a few lost or weary lonely souls that He has sent to you.

In such vulnerable moments we need to take heart to the words of 

2 Chronicles 16:9

It says, 

For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro (or back and forth) throughout the whole earth, 

to show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is loyal to Him.

King David tenderly expressed this reality when he wrote, 

Keep me as the apple of Your eye [that means, the pupil or center of your vision]; 

hide me under the shadow of Your wings.” (Psalm 17:8). 

 

Truly, We Need to Know We Are Not Alone.

I hope you will never again look at a sparrow in quite the same way. 

Were even told in Psalm 84:3-4 that sparrows and swallows find a home and nest at the altars of the Lord, 

at the tabernacle, at temple of Godand how much more so should we!


Heres a little observation assignment for you: 

Watch a little bird.

And when you do, stay focused for a while. 

Yes, focus, and realize that God is looking at you, even more intently in that very same moment. 

After all, people are like sparrows in being noticed and cared for by God, yet in an even greater way.

 

But mark this difference in your observing: 

You will move on in a world that doesnt stop, but God never takes His eyes off of you.

God deeply cares for you as spoken in 1 Peter 5:7

It says, 

Casting all your cares [all your anxieties, all your worries, and all your concerns, 

once and for all] on Him,

For He cares about you [with deepest affection, 

and watches over you very carefully].

  

Its All Part of An Amazing Love Story

— of a love affair started by Him and is highlighted by the invitation from Gods Son to “Follow Him.” 

This invitation is constant and runs over like a cool glass of water, with an incredible promise to us who, 

like the sparrow, are not neglected or forgotten.

While the world values power, status, and outward appearance

 God values the lowly and unseen. 

 

Sparrows were considered little worth in ancient marketplaces, 

yet Jesus said not one falls without the Father knowing. 

This is not a message about birds alone, but about you and me. 

If God cares for the sparrow, how much more does He care for you, His beloved child?

In moments when we feel overlooked or forgotten, 

the image of the sparrow reminds us that Gods eyes never turn away. 

He knows your fears.

He sees your needs, 

and He is,

Always near. 

This truth helps to free us to live without fear and to trust in His daily provision and protection.

 

I REALLY LIKE THIS SOFT, 

HONEST AND SIMPLE PRAYER BY ANABELLE THOMPSON WHO IS A MISSIONARY.

Father God, thank You for showing me how deeply You care for every living thing through the sparrow. 

Even when I feel small or unnoticed, help me remember that Your eyes are always on me. 

Teach me to trust in Your daily care and to rest in the knowledge that I am never forgotten. 

Help me to live with faith that sees Your hand in every detail, just as You provide for the birds of the air. 

May I always find peace in knowing You are near. 

In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

 

Dear Listener! 

The Heavenly Father HAS MUCH TO TELL YOU REGARDING 

ALL OF THE PLANS THAT HE HAS FOR YOU! 


Settle into the nest… 

And Rest!

God is waiting to speak and meet with you!

 

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